1 00:00:05,103 --> 00:00:08,437 That's us: today's youth. 2 00:00:08,507 --> 00:00:11,033 Many think we're strange, they don't much like us. 3 00:00:11,109 --> 00:00:12,235 Why? 4 00:00:12,310 --> 00:00:14,369 Because we're skeptical... 5 00:00:14,446 --> 00:00:16,676 Have our own music... 6 00:00:16,748 --> 00:00:20,116 because we want a new morality without hypocrisy. 7 00:00:26,892 --> 00:00:29,224 That's us - today's girls. 8 00:00:29,294 --> 00:00:32,286 We're curious and honest about ourselves... 9 00:00:32,364 --> 00:00:36,267 while you, the adults, have been lying too much. 10 00:00:36,334 --> 00:00:38,325 Your sausage is burnt. 11 00:00:39,571 --> 00:00:41,061 It's my sausage. 12 00:00:41,139 --> 00:00:43,073 I can burn it as often as I want. 13 00:00:43,141 --> 00:00:47,271 Like our history teacher: black on the outside and brown inside. 14 00:00:47,345 --> 00:00:51,680 - What else can you expect? - You'd be surprised. 15 00:00:51,750 --> 00:00:53,741 Think of what you can do with sausages. 16 00:00:53,818 --> 00:00:55,308 You eat them! 17 00:00:55,387 --> 00:00:57,549 Yes, and you can eat them too. 18 00:01:17,075 --> 00:01:22,411 This film is based on the sexual reports by Günther Hunold. 19 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:26,144 We've added to them by conducting our own surveys. 20 00:01:26,818 --> 00:01:32,882 We have thus created an effective and spontaneous documentary. 21 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:36,326 It shows our youth how they really are. 22 00:01:36,995 --> 00:01:43,162 It shows that our girls see sexuality as an existential part of their self. 23 00:01:44,235 --> 00:01:46,897 This film will open many parents' eyes... 24 00:01:46,972 --> 00:01:50,670 because it shows what many parents don't think is possible. 25 00:01:52,978 --> 00:01:58,678 Schoolgirl Report: What Parents Don't Think Is Possible... 26 00:02:00,251 --> 00:02:03,221 Based on the book by Günther Hunold... 27 00:02:03,288 --> 00:02:05,916 With an epilog by Kurt Seelmann... 28 00:02:05,991 --> 00:02:09,723 Former director, City Youth Office of Munich... 29 00:02:13,064 --> 00:02:17,228 Starring Many anonymous youths and parents... 30 00:02:19,237 --> 00:02:24,232 And as reporter: 31 00:02:27,345 --> 00:02:29,780 Written by... 32 00:02:30,515 --> 00:02:32,916 Music by... 33 00:02:33,652 --> 00:02:36,212 Photography... 34 00:02:37,188 --> 00:02:39,657 Design... 35 00:02:40,425 --> 00:02:42,792 Editor and Assistant Director... 36 00:03:04,716 --> 00:03:08,175 Directed by... 37 00:03:24,602 --> 00:03:26,263 Come along, ladies. 38 00:03:28,139 --> 00:03:29,334 Mind your step. 39 00:03:43,388 --> 00:03:45,880 - Be careful. - I'll remember that. 40 00:03:53,565 --> 00:03:56,398 Good day, my name is Hoffmann. I'll be your guide. 41 00:03:56,468 --> 00:03:59,335 - And here are the kids. - Remarkable. 42 00:04:01,005 --> 00:04:05,704 -I could fancy him. - Him? You must be crazy. 43 00:04:05,777 --> 00:04:08,644 Listen up. Quiet, please. 44 00:04:09,781 --> 00:04:13,149 Mr. Hoffmann has been kind enough... 45 00:04:13,218 --> 00:04:16,779 to agree to show you around the power plant. 46 00:04:16,855 --> 00:04:20,519 Please pay attention to the physics involved. 47 00:04:20,592 --> 00:04:23,562 I'll come back to this in class. 48 00:04:23,628 --> 00:04:25,722 - Good day, ladies. - Good day. 49 00:04:27,031 --> 00:04:30,365 If there's anything you don't understand, please ask. 50 00:04:31,202 --> 00:04:32,863 Are you married, Mr. Hoffmann? 51 00:04:34,739 --> 00:04:37,174 Looking at you, ladies, I'm tempted to say... 52 00:04:37,242 --> 00:04:38,801 “Unfortunately, I am.” 53 00:04:38,877 --> 00:04:41,073 Okay, let's go. 54 00:04:42,413 --> 00:04:46,680 You'll be issued a protective hat. 55 00:04:46,751 --> 00:04:49,482 Not everything that comes from above is good. 56 00:04:52,624 --> 00:04:53,819 This way. 57 00:04:53,892 --> 00:04:56,554 Make sure no one is getting out of line. 58 00:05:00,632 --> 00:05:01,827 Quiet. 59 00:05:18,149 --> 00:05:19,810 To the right, please. 60 00:05:19,884 --> 00:05:22,546 The conversion of energy... 61 00:05:29,894 --> 00:05:34,058 - Have you seen Renate? - She must be over there somewhere. 62 00:05:34,132 --> 00:05:36,328 No, she isn't. 63 00:05:36,401 --> 00:05:38,062 Where is Renate? 64 00:05:38,736 --> 00:05:40,226 Where is Renate? 65 00:06:09,534 --> 00:06:11,195 Who's there? 66 00:06:17,942 --> 00:06:22,038 - Renate? What do you want? - Can't you guess? 67 00:06:32,357 --> 00:06:35,019 - Please- - Please stay down there. 68 00:06:35,093 --> 00:06:37,027 Where can she be? 69 00:06:37,095 --> 00:06:40,429 She's not a little girl. She'll turn up. 70 00:07:34,452 --> 00:07:35,647 Renate! 71 00:07:36,821 --> 00:07:38,983 Why would you take up with that bus driver... 72 00:07:39,057 --> 00:07:40,991 a man you don't know at all? 73 00:07:41,059 --> 00:07:43,721 I've known him for six months. 74 00:07:43,795 --> 00:07:45,729 Renate, do you love him? 75 00:07:45,797 --> 00:07:47,458 When two want to sleep with each other... 76 00:07:47,532 --> 00:07:50,467 it doesn't mean it's the love of your life. 77 00:07:50,535 --> 00:07:52,367 Child, you know what you're saying? 78 00:07:52,437 --> 00:07:55,930 I'm not a child, Mrs. Vogt. You should know that by now. 79 00:07:56,007 --> 00:08:01,673 I'm 18 and live in the 20th century. What I did, I did voluntarily. 80 00:08:01,746 --> 00:08:03,805 Don't be insolent, Renate. 81 00:08:03,881 --> 00:08:06,714 First of all, this embarrassment occurred... 82 00:08:06,784 --> 00:08:10,652 on an official school trip. 83 00:08:10,722 --> 00:08:14,056 And secondly, our school bears the responsibility for this. 84 00:08:14,125 --> 00:08:16,287 - As an educator- - Don't mention that word. 85 00:08:16,361 --> 00:08:18,193 Everyone thinks he needs to educate others. 86 00:08:18,262 --> 00:08:21,254 You and your colleagues cram your teachings down my throat. 87 00:08:21,332 --> 00:08:23,767 What I do privately is my business. 88 00:08:23,835 --> 00:08:26,327 You're an ingrate. 89 00:08:26,404 --> 00:08:30,773 The principal and I are only trying to help you. 90 00:08:30,842 --> 00:08:33,334 How can you help me if you don't understand me? 91 00:08:33,411 --> 00:08:35,971 You talk about love, while I speak about sex. 92 00:08:38,983 --> 00:08:41,645 You're an intelligent student. 93 00:08:41,719 --> 00:08:46,555 If you use your intelligence to oppose order and propriety... 94 00:08:46,624 --> 00:08:50,117 then you're in the wrong place. 95 00:08:50,194 --> 00:08:53,789 Worse, you're a danger to the other students. 96 00:08:54,799 --> 00:08:58,292 - Can I leave? -I can't keep you. 97 00:08:59,303 --> 00:09:01,704 But you'll have to face the consequences. 98 00:09:03,541 --> 00:09:06,738 She must be expelled. 99 00:09:07,412 --> 00:09:09,676 Members of the parents' council... 100 00:09:09,747 --> 00:09:12,079 you'll understand that as principal of this school... 101 00:09:12,150 --> 00:09:14,812 I'm responsible for its reputation. 102 00:09:14,886 --> 00:09:18,447 I have no other choice than to seek her expulsion. 103 00:09:19,791 --> 00:09:21,281 Nevertheless... 104 00:09:21,359 --> 00:09:23,350 I'd like to discuss this case with you... 105 00:09:23,428 --> 00:09:29,197 before it goes through the official channels. 106 00:09:29,267 --> 00:09:34,433 Expulsion is harsh punishment. 107 00:09:34,505 --> 00:09:38,840 Remember that she is an excellent student. 108 00:09:38,910 --> 00:09:42,175 And she's about to graduate. 109 00:09:42,246 --> 00:09:46,410 - She can attend another school. - How can that work? 110 00:09:46,484 --> 00:09:49,818 The other school will know and reject her application. 111 00:09:49,887 --> 00:09:55,223 - A boarding school, perhaps? - Her parents may not have the money. 112 00:09:55,293 --> 00:09:58,991 She should have thought of that first. Let's not get sentimental. 113 00:09:59,063 --> 00:10:05,799 As parents, we can't allow such filth to rub off on our daughters. 114 00:10:05,870 --> 00:10:07,895 Hear, hear! 115 00:10:08,573 --> 00:10:11,008 This is not getting us anywhere. 116 00:10:12,176 --> 00:10:15,840 In my view, Renate just had bad luck. 117 00:10:15,913 --> 00:10:21,408 The bad luck of being discovered by an overzealous teacher. 118 00:10:22,453 --> 00:10:25,354 That's the only difference between her and the other students. 119 00:10:25,857 --> 00:10:27,256 I beg your pardon. 120 00:10:27,925 --> 00:10:31,418 Please let me explain. 121 00:10:31,496 --> 00:10:34,932 Doctor Bernauer is a psychologist specializing in adolescence. 122 00:10:34,999 --> 00:10:37,900 - He might, perhaps- - Psychology, my ass. 123 00:10:37,969 --> 00:10:41,462 Spanking them, that's the best psychology. 124 00:10:41,539 --> 00:10:44,531 - Absolutely! - A mother doesn't need psycho babble. 125 00:10:46,210 --> 00:10:48,542 I don't think you're right. 126 00:10:49,580 --> 00:10:53,915 Today's youth are more independent sexually than you think. 127 00:10:53,985 --> 00:10:56,955 We might not like it... 128 00:10:57,021 --> 00:10:59,217 but our kids don't just talk about sex... 129 00:10:59,290 --> 00:11:01,782 they practice sex. 130 00:11:01,859 --> 00:11:05,796 Our sexual ethics are outdated. 131 00:11:08,065 --> 00:11:09,794 The fact that a majority of the public... 132 00:11:09,867 --> 00:11:12,359 is unwilling to abandon principles that have no objective basis... 133 00:11:12,436 --> 00:11:15,269 doesn't change it either. 134 00:11:15,339 --> 00:11:17,433 Particularly, the state, churches and schools. 135 00:11:18,109 --> 00:11:22,273 Their ethics don't match the findings of modern research. 136 00:11:23,848 --> 00:11:27,614 I myself have conducted a series of surveys. 137 00:11:27,685 --> 00:11:29,483 Let me give some examples. 138 00:11:30,488 --> 00:11:33,287 What do you think of ads like these? 139 00:11:33,357 --> 00:11:36,349 I think that's none of your business. 140 00:11:36,427 --> 00:11:39,362 But these ads are to make you think. 141 00:11:39,430 --> 00:11:41,091 - Did you make it? - No. 142 00:11:41,165 --> 00:11:43,998 Then, why ask? Are you trying to pick me up? 143 00:11:44,068 --> 00:11:46,298 That's an old trick. 144 00:11:46,370 --> 00:11:49,237 - So, no answer? - No answer. 145 00:11:53,344 --> 00:11:56,336 See, Mr. Reitmeier, the priest. I have asked around. 146 00:11:56,414 --> 00:11:58,974 I can't believe someone like that would become a priest. 147 00:11:59,650 --> 00:12:01,311 I'm going to upset his hormone levels. 148 00:12:01,385 --> 00:12:02,375 How? 149 00:12:02,453 --> 00:12:06,253 I'll confess and make not only his hair stand up. 150 00:12:16,234 --> 00:12:20,102 What a shame that such a man is not available biologically. 151 00:12:20,771 --> 00:12:23,934 - Stay. I'll change. - What for? 152 00:12:24,008 --> 00:12:26,670 Stupid, he deserves some fun too. 153 00:12:26,744 --> 00:12:30,078 Well, then don't wear your bra. 154 00:12:36,754 --> 00:12:38,745 - Is anyone coming? - No. 155 00:12:55,439 --> 00:12:59,376 Mother wants me to confess regularly. I'll do just that. 156 00:13:00,778 --> 00:13:04,874 If 1 wore that at home, my father would Kill me. 157 00:13:14,592 --> 00:13:16,424 Come. 158 00:13:26,103 --> 00:13:28,162 Kneel. 159 00:13:29,173 --> 00:13:32,108 Confession is at 5:00. He'll be here shortly. 160 00:13:58,336 --> 00:14:00,361 Don't be silly. 161 00:14:24,695 --> 00:14:27,357 My last confession was a week ago. 162 00:14:27,431 --> 00:14:29,229 But I have sinned again. 163 00:14:29,734 --> 00:14:30,599 Well? 164 00:14:32,503 --> 00:14:35,495 - Ask me. - How did you sin? 165 00:14:37,174 --> 00:14:39,666 I've committed fornication. 166 00:14:40,811 --> 00:14:43,803 - Fornication? With whom? - With a man, of course. 167 00:14:43,881 --> 00:14:45,849 What sort of man? 168 00:14:47,385 --> 00:14:50,753 About 40, he's somewhat older. 169 00:14:50,821 --> 00:14:52,311 He's married. 170 00:14:57,862 --> 00:14:59,193 In what way? 171 00:14:59,930 --> 00:15:01,261 I kissed him. 172 00:15:05,836 --> 00:15:07,167 On his belly. 173 00:15:10,741 --> 00:15:13,506 First his belly, and his thing got all big and hard. 174 00:15:13,577 --> 00:15:15,773 And so kissed that too. 175 00:15:23,387 --> 00:15:24,877 Were you naked? 176 00:15:24,955 --> 00:15:28,619 Of course, Father, stark naked. 177 00:15:28,692 --> 00:15:31,525 He stroked my breasts. 178 00:15:31,595 --> 00:15:34,257 He shoved his hand between my legs. 179 00:15:34,331 --> 00:15:36,299 Then, he gave it to me. 180 00:15:37,935 --> 00:15:40,097 Eight times in a row. 181 00:15:40,171 --> 00:15:42,105 From behind, and three times from the front. 182 00:15:42,173 --> 00:15:43,834 And every single day. 183 00:15:49,113 --> 00:15:50,774 So many times each time? 184 00:15:51,582 --> 00:15:54,051 Sure, I went back to him all the time. 185 00:15:55,219 --> 00:15:57,916 - Is that all? - Isn’t it enough? 186 00:15:57,988 --> 00:16:02,755 No, you haven't confessed to breaking the eleventh commandment. 187 00:16:05,529 --> 00:16:07,691 The eleventh? Does it exist? 188 00:16:08,799 --> 00:16:11,268 If not, it would have to be created just for you. 189 00:16:14,772 --> 00:16:16,262 What do you mean? 190 00:16:18,375 --> 00:16:20,366 Thou shalt not brag. 191 00:16:20,444 --> 00:16:23,709 You don't expect me to continue with this confession, do you? 192 00:16:24,381 --> 00:16:27,316 - Why? - Because you lied. 193 00:16:27,384 --> 00:16:29,614 I cannot give you absolution. 194 00:16:29,687 --> 00:16:31,678 This is not a place for bad jokes. 195 00:16:31,755 --> 00:16:33,450 Come back when you're sincere. 196 00:16:35,793 --> 00:16:37,283 My apologies, Father. 197 00:16:44,668 --> 00:16:46,397 - Come, let's go. - What's up? 198 00:16:46,470 --> 00:16:48,700 Damn it, come! 199 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:52,031 I've told you this story to show you... 200 00:16:52,109 --> 00:16:58,048 that young girls may do things totally unimaginable to adults. 201 00:16:58,716 --> 00:17:02,584 But don't conclude that these are signs of moral decay. 202 00:17:04,088 --> 00:17:06,420 For Heike, her actions are simply pranks... 203 00:17:06,490 --> 00:17:09,482 that make her popular among her friends. 204 00:17:10,327 --> 00:17:14,059 There's no reason to think they will affect her future. 205 00:17:22,540 --> 00:17:25,532 I had to repeat one year once if you're interested. 206 00:17:25,609 --> 00:17:28,670 My father is department head in a food company... 207 00:17:28,746 --> 00:17:30,236 and my mother is a housewife. 208 00:17:30,314 --> 00:17:31,804 I have no siblings. 209 00:17:35,085 --> 00:17:37,417 Hello? Ah, it's you, Micky. 210 00:17:37,488 --> 00:17:39,752 Yes, Susie just got home. 211 00:17:39,823 --> 00:17:42,315 Susie, telephone! 212 00:17:43,827 --> 00:17:45,693 - Who is it? - Micky. 213 00:17:50,034 --> 00:17:51,126 Hello? 214 00:17:51,201 --> 00:17:52,191 Hi. 215 00:17:53,370 --> 00:17:55,839 Saturday? Who else is coming? 216 00:17:56,507 --> 00:18:00,000 Peter too? He can go and take a hike. 217 00:18:00,711 --> 00:18:02,372 Michi and Kuchie? 218 00:18:02,446 --> 00:18:04,278 That'll be swell. 219 00:18:04,348 --> 00:18:07,010 No, this afternoon I can't. 220 00:18:07,084 --> 00:18:08,916 I'm being tutored. 221 00:18:12,256 --> 00:18:14,486 No, I really can't. 222 00:18:15,159 --> 00:18:17,924 Bye. Say hi to everybody. 223 00:18:22,266 --> 00:18:24,530 What did Micky want? 224 00:18:24,602 --> 00:18:28,937 We want to go out on Saturday. 225 00:18:29,006 --> 00:18:33,842 - That's out of the question. - But the others can go. 226 00:18:33,911 --> 00:18:35,845 This is only about you. 227 00:18:35,913 --> 00:18:38,575 If you fail your courses again, you'll be expelled from school. 228 00:18:38,649 --> 00:18:40,481 - But I'm working hard. - Not enough. 229 00:18:40,551 --> 00:18:43,384 Girls your age have to focus on school. 230 00:18:43,454 --> 00:18:45,218 I have to see my math tutor. 231 00:18:45,289 --> 00:18:50,784 That's what I mean. We should deduct that from your allowance. 232 00:18:50,861 --> 00:18:53,558 Leave some cherries for your father. 233 00:18:54,765 --> 00:18:57,928 You never think of the money your laziness costs us. 234 00:18:58,002 --> 00:19:02,530 - And come straight home. - Yeah, yeah. 235 00:19:03,374 --> 00:19:07,777 Through allocation of X to X to the power of alpha... 236 00:19:07,845 --> 00:19:10,837 with alpha constant... 237 00:19:10,914 --> 00:19:15,476 a function is defined known as a power function. 238 00:19:15,552 --> 00:19:17,543 - What's that? - Mathematics. 239 00:19:17,621 --> 00:19:21,114 - And what does it mean? - Don't tempt me. 240 00:19:21,191 --> 00:19:24,422 - To do what? - Spank you. 241 00:19:24,495 --> 00:19:26,793 - Coward. - Shut up. 242 00:19:28,666 --> 00:19:30,156 What are you doing? 243 00:19:30,234 --> 00:19:32,293 I just wanted to know what it feels like. 244 00:19:33,337 --> 00:19:36,466 - And do you know now? - Not quite. 245 00:19:36,540 --> 00:19:38,372 Tell me, Gunther... 246 00:19:38,442 --> 00:19:41,104 have you ever been involved with women? 247 00:19:41,178 --> 00:19:43,340 - What's it to you? - A lot. 248 00:19:44,281 --> 00:19:46,443 Yes, sure, of course. 249 00:19:46,517 --> 00:19:49,145 - So you know how to do it? - Know what? 250 00:19:49,820 --> 00:19:53,154 You know, with courtship and all. 251 00:19:53,824 --> 00:19:55,758 Okay, and if so, then what? 252 00:19:57,027 --> 00:20:01,157 Listen, Lolita, you're barking up the wrong tree. 253 00:20:01,999 --> 00:20:05,663 Fornication with dependent minors- 254 00:20:05,736 --> 00:20:09,138 Why? I don't depend on you. 255 00:20:11,809 --> 00:20:15,643 Great idea to move class out here. 256 00:20:16,380 --> 00:20:18,712 I'm not sure anymore it was a good idea. 257 00:21:16,273 --> 00:21:20,608 Flirting, kissing, hugging and petting... 258 00:21:20,677 --> 00:21:23,339 are quite natural in post-puberty... 259 00:21:23,413 --> 00:21:27,111 Petting involves intimate physical contact.. 260 00:21:27,184 --> 00:21:29,312 That doesn't end in intercourse. 261 00:21:29,386 --> 00:21:31,548 But all else is allowed. 262 00:21:31,622 --> 00:21:35,991 This has less to do with love than with curiosity. 263 00:21:36,059 --> 00:21:38,255 No. Please, no. 264 00:21:38,328 --> 00:21:39,989 Stop. 265 00:21:49,473 --> 00:21:52,443 Our interviewer Friedrich Von Thun... 266 00:21:52,509 --> 00:21:55,376 has heard a lot about petting in Munich's streets. 267 00:21:55,445 --> 00:21:57,607 Listen to it yourself 268 00:21:57,681 --> 00:21:59,672 Excuse me. Can you tell me what petting is? 269 00:21:59,750 --> 00:22:01,582 - Of course. - Well, what is it? 270 00:22:01,652 --> 00:22:06,818 Putting your opponent on the mat and finishing him off. 271 00:22:06,890 --> 00:22:10,724 - Have you been involved in petting? - Yes, I think when I was 14. 272 00:22:10,794 --> 00:22:14,697 At the English Garden, and my boyfriend was 21. 273 00:22:14,765 --> 00:22:17,291 He'd touch me... 274 00:22:17,367 --> 00:22:21,031 and we'd both reach a climax. 275 00:22:21,104 --> 00:22:24,438 If we’d been inside, I think, we could have gone further. 276 00:22:24,508 --> 00:22:26,067 - How old are you now? -16. 277 00:22:26,143 --> 00:22:28,703 - Do you have a steady boyfriend? - Yes. 278 00:22:28,779 --> 00:22:31,111 - No. - Why not? 279 00:22:31,181 --> 00:22:34,310 - Don't feel like it. - Did you have a steady boyfriend? 280 00:22:34,384 --> 00:22:38,719 No. What's with those personal questions? I don't like this. 281 00:22:38,789 --> 00:22:44,284 Do you think that it's the man that must initiate sex? 282 00:22:44,361 --> 00:22:46,193 No, not necessarily. 283 00:22:46,263 --> 00:22:49,324 How do you seduce your boyfriend? 284 00:22:49,833 --> 00:22:52,302 That's too personal. I don't want to answer that. 285 00:22:52,369 --> 00:22:57,933 That's difficult. It depends on the situation. 286 00:22:58,008 --> 00:23:01,410 - Do you have a steady boyfriend? - No. 287 00:23:01,478 --> 00:23:02,968 Why not? 288 00:23:03,647 --> 00:23:06,082 I'd rather be independent. 289 00:23:06,149 --> 00:23:08,982 Do you think that a girl should remain a virgin until she's married? 290 00:23:09,052 --> 00:23:14,616 That depends. But I think you can't generalize. 291 00:23:14,691 --> 00:23:17,023 If you're excited and don't have a man, what do you do then? 292 00:23:17,094 --> 00:23:19,324 Well, what do you do? 293 00:23:24,568 --> 00:23:26,332 That's great, no? 294 00:23:27,604 --> 00:23:31,768 - You can wear this. - It's moth-eaten. 295 00:23:31,842 --> 00:23:36,177 - No, it's great. I'd take it. - Then why don't you? 296 00:23:36,246 --> 00:23:39,705 - My dad would kill me. - Mine doesn't mind. 297 00:23:41,718 --> 00:23:43,379 - You think I should? - Yes. 298 00:23:43,453 --> 00:23:45,547 - Can I try it on? - Yes, of course. 299 00:23:56,633 --> 00:24:00,069 - Would you like to try one on too? - No, no money. 300 00:24:00,137 --> 00:24:02,629 All right. 301 00:24:22,626 --> 00:24:23,821 So does it fit? 302 00:24:25,495 --> 00:24:26,485 Yes. 303 00:24:26,563 --> 00:24:28,053 Man, this is great. 304 00:24:28,131 --> 00:24:31,624 If Otto sees me like this, he'll make his moves. 305 00:24:32,302 --> 00:24:36,637 - Otto and you are going steady? - Yes, he's 27. Beard and a car. 306 00:24:36,707 --> 00:24:39,199 - You don't have a boyfriend? - No. 307 00:24:39,276 --> 00:24:41,608 I see. Lack of opportunity. 308 00:24:41,678 --> 00:24:44,739 But don't wait too long. Otherwise, you'll get pimples. 309 00:24:44,815 --> 00:24:47,648 - What am I to do? - Find yourself a stud. 310 00:24:47,718 --> 00:24:50,085 Or do you have to ask your dad's permission? 311 00:24:58,428 --> 00:25:01,193 Stop playing with your food, Achim. 312 00:25:01,264 --> 00:25:03,426 Your mother puts good and nutritious food on the table. 313 00:25:05,302 --> 00:25:06,963 How did you do in Latin? 314 00:25:07,037 --> 00:25:10,007 -I got a D. - That's sad. 315 00:25:10,073 --> 00:25:13,008 - Why? A D is adequate. - Great. 316 00:25:13,076 --> 00:25:16,512 If adequate is all you aim for, you won't go far in life. 317 00:25:16,580 --> 00:25:18,981 Why? You don't know that. Bismarck failed twice. 318 00:25:19,049 --> 00:25:22,075 And Einstein was a retard until the age of 10. 319 00:25:23,120 --> 00:25:26,283 Stop making these ridiculous statements. 320 00:25:26,356 --> 00:25:28,848 You know what I mean. 321 00:25:28,925 --> 00:25:31,860 You wouldn't have any food if I hadn't worked hard all my life. 322 00:25:31,928 --> 00:25:33,418 Civil-servant food. 323 00:25:37,367 --> 00:25:39,927 That's great. Achim says something, but I get slapped. 324 00:25:40,003 --> 00:25:42,062 Shut your trap. You deserved it. 325 00:25:42,139 --> 00:25:44,574 - You laughed. - I'm not allowed to laugh? 326 00:25:45,242 --> 00:25:46,937 - No! - But Egon. 327 00:25:48,879 --> 00:25:51,905 Thank you. I've lost my appetite. 328 00:25:56,887 --> 00:25:59,049 The mouth on today's youth. 329 00:26:03,693 --> 00:26:07,061 I should have been so impertinent. My father would have killed me. 330 00:26:08,732 --> 00:26:10,826 - Shit. - Achim. 331 00:26:10,901 --> 00:26:14,804 - And I wanted to go out tonight. - Why should you be better off? 332 00:26:14,871 --> 00:26:18,102 - May I be excused? - Yes. 333 00:26:21,111 --> 00:26:23,773 At least one who's allowed to do things. 334 00:26:41,598 --> 00:26:44,329 Father and mother are living in a bubble. 335 00:26:45,168 --> 00:26:47,535 They don't know me at all. 336 00:26:48,438 --> 00:26:52,375 When will they realize I am not a child anymore? 337 00:26:57,447 --> 00:26:59,609 I'm not allowed to do anything. 338 00:27:03,453 --> 00:27:05,319 Everything is off-limits for me. 339 00:27:07,958 --> 00:27:11,087 If they could, they'd cut off my breasts. 340 00:27:11,161 --> 00:27:14,791 They'd keep me in the sandbox until I was 27. 341 00:28:41,384 --> 00:28:45,218 Don't ever do anything this filthy again! 342 00:28:47,324 --> 00:28:51,659 Or do you want to be sick for the rest of your life? 343 00:28:52,829 --> 00:28:56,390 Don't you want a decent and proper man? 344 00:28:57,067 --> 00:28:59,502 What were you thinking? 345 00:29:00,170 --> 00:29:04,164 What do you think your father will do if I tell him? 346 00:29:04,241 --> 00:29:07,302 Who taught you that? 347 00:29:07,377 --> 00:29:12,406 Mrs. Holm makes every possible mistake in this situation. 348 00:29:13,750 --> 00:29:16,913 It's not masturbation that's making Elisabeth sick... 349 00:29:16,987 --> 00:29:20,480 but her mother's backward ways of raising her children. 350 00:29:21,658 --> 00:29:26,653 Masturbation, which is even tacitly accepted by the church... 351 00:29:26,730 --> 00:29:31,964 is a natural valve for letting off steam in adolescent development. 352 00:29:32,035 --> 00:29:35,096 If you're excited and don't have a man, what do you? 353 00:29:36,106 --> 00:29:39,872 Then, I'll satisfy myself. Why not? 354 00:29:39,943 --> 00:29:41,741 Can I ask you a few questions? 355 00:29:41,811 --> 00:29:44,007 What do you think of masturbation? 356 00:29:44,748 --> 00:29:48,810 Well, I don't know. Everyone can do what they want. 357 00:29:48,885 --> 00:29:51,445 Do you do it? 358 00:29:51,521 --> 00:29:53,182 Sometimes. 359 00:29:53,256 --> 00:29:55,418 How old were you when you started? 360 00:29:58,962 --> 00:30:00,396 Twenty. 361 00:30:00,463 --> 00:30:01,692 Twenty years old. 362 00:30:01,765 --> 00:30:04,826 - Why did you start? -I saw it in a movie. 363 00:30:04,901 --> 00:30:07,461 - Was it- - Yes, I think so. 364 00:30:09,539 --> 00:30:13,476 - How often do you do it? - That depends. 365 00:30:13,543 --> 00:30:17,878 - Do you have a steady boyfriend? - Not at this time. 366 00:30:17,947 --> 00:30:21,076 - Do you masturbate if you have one? - Yes. 367 00:30:21,151 --> 00:30:24,246 - If you have a steady boyfriend? - What? 368 00:30:24,321 --> 00:30:27,848 - Do you masturbate then as well? - Why not? 369 00:30:27,924 --> 00:30:31,588 - How many times a week? - Don't know. If I feel like it. 370 00:30:31,661 --> 00:30:33,356 - Can I ask you a question? - No. 371 00:30:33,430 --> 00:30:35,694 - What do you think of masturbation? - Nothing. 372 00:30:35,765 --> 00:30:37,255 - Can I ask you something? - Yes. 373 00:30:37,334 --> 00:30:38,995 - Do you masturbate? - Yes. 374 00:30:39,069 --> 00:30:43,165 - Since when? - Since I was 5 or 6. 375 00:30:43,239 --> 00:30:46,539 - How did you find out? -I slid down the banister... 376 00:30:46,609 --> 00:30:48,099 and it felt good. 377 00:30:48,178 --> 00:30:50,670 When did you start masturbating? 378 00:30:51,848 --> 00:30:54,010 After I got married. 379 00:30:54,084 --> 00:30:57,543 - What? - After I got married, when I was 24. 380 00:30:57,620 --> 00:30:59,714 How many times a week? 381 00:30:59,789 --> 00:31:03,487 Rarely, because I'm married. 382 00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:07,724 - Do you feel guilty about it? - Not, not at all. Why should I? 383 00:31:07,797 --> 00:31:11,461 Can I ask you something? What do you think of masturbation? 384 00:31:11,534 --> 00:31:14,765 My goodness. Why not? 385 00:31:14,838 --> 00:31:20,333 - How did you learn it? - You find out for yourself. 386 00:31:20,410 --> 00:31:23,175 - Do you feel guilty about it? - No. 387 00:31:23,246 --> 00:31:26,272 Masturbation? What do you think? 388 00:31:27,283 --> 00:31:28,944 Sure, why not. 389 00:31:29,018 --> 00:31:35,390 You shouldn't do it alone. 390 00:31:35,458 --> 00:31:40,794 You must have a partner. 391 00:31:40,864 --> 00:31:44,357 If someone doesn't have a choice, why shouldn't they? 392 00:31:44,434 --> 00:31:47,426 - How did you learn it? - You don't learn it. 393 00:31:47,504 --> 00:31:49,529 You either know or you don't. 394 00:31:49,606 --> 00:31:52,871 You're mother and daughter. 395 00:31:52,942 --> 00:31:54,910 What do you think of masturbation? 396 00:31:56,079 --> 00:31:58,673 I don't think it's so wrong. 397 00:31:58,748 --> 00:32:01,115 At what age did you start? 398 00:32:02,485 --> 00:32:04,783 Not in my youth. 399 00:32:06,956 --> 00:32:08,651 It didn't exist then. 400 00:32:08,725 --> 00:32:11,057 I was 10. 401 00:32:11,127 --> 00:32:14,893 My girlfriend showed me, and I did it too. 402 00:32:14,964 --> 00:32:18,195 I think it's good for your body. 403 00:32:18,868 --> 00:32:23,362 - Did you feel guilty? - No. Not at all. 404 00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:26,842 - How many times a week? - Three or four times. 405 00:32:26,910 --> 00:32:29,743 - Do you have a boyfriend? - Yes. 406 00:32:31,247 --> 00:32:36,185 - And you still do it? - Yes, I prefer to do it myself. 407 00:32:36,252 --> 00:32:38,949 I'm Michelle and 18 years old. 408 00:32:39,022 --> 00:32:41,957 I'm in 11th grade now. 409 00:32:42,025 --> 00:32:45,017 - Do you have specific problems? - Not that I know of. 410 00:32:45,094 --> 00:32:46,926 Not at school or at home. 411 00:32:46,996 --> 00:32:51,160 - Do you want to get married? - Because I'm babysitting here? 412 00:32:51,234 --> 00:32:55,728 I'm doing this for my sister. That little one, that's hers. 413 00:32:55,805 --> 00:32:56,966 414 00:32:57,040 --> 00:33:02,877 Yes, I'd like to get married. But only after school. 415 00:33:02,946 --> 00:33:07,281 When I'm 21 or 23. And I want to have children. 416 00:33:07,350 --> 00:33:10,342 - Two or four. - Why not three? 417 00:33:10,420 --> 00:33:14,755 I read once that three fight more than two or four. 418 00:33:14,824 --> 00:33:17,316 - And until then? - I'm on the pill. 419 00:33:17,393 --> 00:33:22,229 - You get it like that? - Yes, from my sister's doctor. 420 00:33:22,298 --> 00:33:24,630 Do you want to talk about your sex life? 421 00:33:26,135 --> 00:33:30,470 Scientifically, yes. Go ahead. I can always say no later. 422 00:33:30,540 --> 00:33:33,510 How old were you when you lost your virginity? 423 00:33:33,576 --> 00:33:35,237 Thirteen. 424 00:33:35,311 --> 00:33:38,872 - Were you seduced? - No. I wanted to know. 425 00:33:38,948 --> 00:33:41,440 It was hard getting the boy to do it. 426 00:33:41,518 --> 00:33:43,748 He was 18, and I was curious. 427 00:33:44,621 --> 00:33:46,419 And it was fun. 428 00:33:47,323 --> 00:33:49,621 From that day on, I've always had sex. 429 00:34:15,652 --> 00:34:18,417 I met my current boyfriend at a party. 430 00:34:18,488 --> 00:34:20,149 That was five months ago. 431 00:34:20,223 --> 00:34:23,454 Since then, I haven't fucked everyone in sight. 432 00:34:27,397 --> 00:34:31,561 His name is Michael. He's 22. Wants to work in a bookstore. 433 00:34:31,634 --> 00:34:34,296 You don't feel like changing partners all the time anymore? 434 00:34:34,370 --> 00:34:36,702 No, not at all. 435 00:34:36,773 --> 00:34:40,835 But I have urges. I need it a few times a week. 436 00:34:40,910 --> 00:34:45,575 If he satisfies me, of course, I'll be faithful to him. 437 00:34:45,648 --> 00:34:49,642 Tell me, you don't think I'm a mental case, do you? 438 00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:51,949 No, don't worry. 439 00:34:53,389 --> 00:34:58,327 - Does sex require love? - No. 440 00:34:58,394 --> 00:35:00,021 - It can be fun without love? - Yes. 441 00:35:00,096 --> 00:35:04,863 - Could you work as a prostitute? - Yes. 442 00:35:04,934 --> 00:35:08,837 - Yes? Thank you. - But not below 500 marks. 443 00:35:08,905 --> 00:35:14,844 - Does sex require love? - Yes, that's the only way. 444 00:35:15,979 --> 00:35:17,640 At least, that's my view. 445 00:35:17,714 --> 00:35:21,708 Essentially, no, but I think there's a big difference... 446 00:35:21,784 --> 00:35:26,381 between a sexual relationship with love and without. 447 00:35:26,456 --> 00:35:28,754 - Do you- - But it's possible without love. 448 00:35:28,825 --> 00:35:32,659 - Could you work as a prostitute? - No. 449 00:35:32,729 --> 00:35:36,029 - Are there borderline situations? - Yes, certainly. 450 00:35:36,099 --> 00:35:41,265 At what age should young girls be allowed to have sex? 451 00:35:41,337 --> 00:35:46,434 That depends on how mature she is, from 16 or 17. 452 00:35:46,509 --> 00:35:49,570 - At what age did you first have sex? -16. 453 00:35:49,646 --> 00:35:53,344 Would you have sex for money? 454 00:35:53,416 --> 00:35:58,183 No, but generally, anyone could. 455 00:35:59,355 --> 00:36:02,290 What happens if a girl is physically mature... 456 00:36:02,358 --> 00:36:06,556 but cannot deal with her sexual desires mentally? 457 00:36:07,397 --> 00:36:10,059 A girl like that will often make herself and others unhappy. 458 00:36:11,067 --> 00:36:14,697 This case occurred in a major German city. 459 00:36:14,771 --> 00:36:18,469 - What are you moping about? - Thinking of Mrs. Blitzke. 460 00:36:18,541 --> 00:36:21,533 That old lesbo. The assignments she gives! 461 00:36:21,611 --> 00:36:25,775 - What was it this time? - Joan's moral conflict. Stupid! 462 00:36:25,848 --> 00:36:29,113 - What Joan? - Joan of Arc. 463 00:36:29,185 --> 00:36:32,485 By Schiller. I'm sure I failed the composition. 464 00:36:32,555 --> 00:36:35,081 I'm finished if I get an F. 465 00:36:35,158 --> 00:36:37,786 But Mrs. Blitzke can't stand me anyway. 466 00:36:39,529 --> 00:36:42,863 - Those would be right for us. - Since when are you into kids? 467 00:36:42,932 --> 00:36:46,266 They're hard work. They need to be broken in by others first. 468 00:36:46,335 --> 00:36:47,825 Asshole! 469 00:36:49,772 --> 00:36:51,262 There he is again! 470 00:36:57,046 --> 00:36:58,536 He would be worth a sin! 471 00:36:58,614 --> 00:37:01,208 I'd love to take a ride on him. 472 00:37:01,284 --> 00:37:05,118 Oh, him. He's probably into women with a fat bank account. 473 00:37:05,788 --> 00:37:08,951 The jury's still out on whether he's into women. 474 00:37:09,625 --> 00:37:13,960 You want to put him to the test? 475 00:37:14,030 --> 00:37:17,830 - How? - Silly. Ever heard of striptease? 476 00:37:18,668 --> 00:37:20,193 He's back. 477 00:37:23,272 --> 00:37:26,105 - He's passing by here. Shall we? - Only if you're all in. 478 00:37:26,175 --> 00:37:28,166 - Sure. - Well, then let's go. 479 00:37:48,030 --> 00:37:49,691 Hey, you can't do that. 480 00:37:53,269 --> 00:37:55,567 - What? - Going topless. 481 00:37:56,773 --> 00:37:59,242 How else are we going to get a tan? 482 00:37:59,308 --> 00:38:01,868 Do it at home. Here it's forbidden. 483 00:38:02,545 --> 00:38:05,207 - Who says so? - The regulations. 484 00:38:05,281 --> 00:38:08,251 Kids, don't be difficult, or I'll have to kick you out. 485 00:38:11,220 --> 00:38:12,710 You could do that? 486 00:38:12,789 --> 00:38:15,781 I wouldn't like it, but the rules are the rules. 487 00:38:15,858 --> 00:38:19,852 - Personally, I couldn't care less. - Really? 488 00:38:19,929 --> 00:38:22,762 Be reasonable and put your tops back on. 489 00:38:22,832 --> 00:38:24,698 I haven't seen anything. 490 00:38:24,767 --> 00:38:27,429 When I come back, I don't want to see that. 491 00:38:27,503 --> 00:38:29,232 Understood? 492 00:38:39,982 --> 00:38:43,282 - I'll show him. - You won't. 493 00:38:43,352 --> 00:38:46,185 Silly, he's shitting his pants because of the law. 494 00:38:46,255 --> 00:38:49,020 I'll manage. 495 00:38:49,091 --> 00:38:50,581 Give me a hairpin. 496 00:38:50,660 --> 00:38:53,152 - What are you up to? - You'll see. 497 00:38:53,229 --> 00:38:54,355 Well, go ahead. 498 00:39:00,536 --> 00:39:04,370 - What's wrong? - You got a Band-Aid or something? 499 00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:09,970 - Did you cut yourself? - Broken glass. It's everywhere. 500 00:39:10,046 --> 00:39:13,607 You should look out for that, not topless girls. 501 00:39:13,683 --> 00:39:15,276 Who knows what can happen? 502 00:39:15,351 --> 00:39:18,082 I could get sepsis. 503 00:39:18,154 --> 00:39:19,588 Where? 504 00:39:20,256 --> 00:39:21,917 Here. 505 00:39:21,991 --> 00:39:23,755 Are you going to let me bleed? 506 00:39:23,826 --> 00:39:26,193 Just a minute. I'll get you something. 507 00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:34,392 You do that. I can't reach. 508 00:39:34,470 --> 00:39:36,461 You got some iodine? 509 00:39:37,173 --> 00:39:39,437 Who knows what can happen? 510 00:39:46,716 --> 00:39:49,549 - Ouch! - It won't take long. 511 00:40:00,630 --> 00:40:03,691 - And what about damages? - Damages? 512 00:40:04,100 --> 00:40:07,434 - Sure, you're liable. - You're nuts. 513 00:40:07,503 --> 00:40:12,566 How about if you let my friends and me back in tonight? 514 00:40:13,242 --> 00:40:17,406 After closing, we'd like to have the pool all to ourselves. 515 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:19,312 I can't do that. It's not allowed. 516 00:40:19,382 --> 00:40:23,046 Come on. We could look for broken glass together. 517 00:40:23,119 --> 00:40:25,349 Out of the question. 518 00:40:29,525 --> 00:40:31,994 I'll be. You're all dressed up. 519 00:40:32,662 --> 00:40:34,994 Nice, eh? We're off to a special party. 520 00:40:35,064 --> 00:40:37,556 Don't let anyone see you. My job's on the line. 521 00:40:37,633 --> 00:40:39,795 - What's your name? - Theo. And you? 522 00:40:39,869 --> 00:40:42,201 Margit, Karin, and I'm Claudia. 523 00:40:42,271 --> 00:40:44,933 - How old are you? - 44, 524 00:40:45,007 --> 00:40:46,668 You're kidding me. 525 00:40:46,742 --> 00:40:50,440 - Together. You do the math. - That doesn't leave much. 526 00:40:50,513 --> 00:40:52,174 Are you sure? 527 00:40:52,248 --> 00:40:56,207 Swim as much as you want, but be quiet. 528 00:40:57,486 --> 00:41:01,582 You have some towels? We couldn't bring ours to this party. 529 00:41:22,645 --> 00:41:24,477 I can't get it off. 530 00:41:32,655 --> 00:41:34,589 He's looking at us. 531 00:41:35,758 --> 00:41:38,455 I wonder how long he can keep his cool. 532 00:41:38,527 --> 00:41:40,188 - Hush, he's coming. - What's with you? 533 00:41:40,262 --> 00:41:42,196 Why aren't you undressing? 534 00:41:42,264 --> 00:41:45,097 I changed my mind. See you. 535 00:41:45,167 --> 00:41:46,828 She's so middle-class. 536 00:41:46,902 --> 00:41:49,234 Don't bother showing your face. 537 00:41:55,344 --> 00:41:58,279 Are you crazy? If someone sees you- 538 00:41:58,347 --> 00:42:01,442 That wasn't the deal. Get out now. 539 00:42:02,351 --> 00:42:06,015 Stay in there. I'll put the towels down, and you're gone in five minutes. 540 00:42:06,088 --> 00:42:08,750 Or I'll call the police. 541 00:42:08,824 --> 00:42:11,794 Get the police, then, Theo. Where's the police? 542 00:42:14,130 --> 00:42:15,620 At least be quiet. 543 00:42:18,134 --> 00:42:21,126 Hey, what are you doing? 544 00:42:36,252 --> 00:42:39,222 Is yours really that small or is the water just cold? 545 00:43:41,484 --> 00:43:45,352 Claudia, with a pool attendant! Why? 546 00:43:46,021 --> 00:43:48,854 Why? I don't know myself. 547 00:43:48,924 --> 00:43:51,757 I'm scared. Will I have a baby now? 548 00:43:51,827 --> 00:43:55,593 A baby at 15? You're a child yourself. 549 00:43:56,932 --> 00:43:59,060 We have to see a doctor now. 550 00:43:59,135 --> 00:44:04,301 Please, Mom, if I'm pregnant, let him take it out of me. 551 00:44:04,373 --> 00:44:06,535 That swine. 552 00:44:06,609 --> 00:44:08,805 He's responsible. 553 00:44:08,878 --> 00:44:10,710 He'll have to pay for this. 554 00:44:10,779 --> 00:44:13,714 What he's done to you! 555 00:44:14,783 --> 00:44:16,444 I have to tell your father. 556 00:44:16,519 --> 00:44:18,351 No, please, don't tell him. 557 00:44:18,420 --> 00:44:21,913 We can't keep it from him. 558 00:44:22,591 --> 00:44:26,255 The man must be punished. You're not 16 yet. 559 00:44:26,328 --> 00:44:28,194 The man is a criminal. 560 00:44:29,365 --> 00:44:31,299 What about the other girl? 561 00:44:32,401 --> 00:44:34,631 Did he do it to her too? 562 00:44:34,703 --> 00:44:36,899 No, Mom, only me. 563 00:44:36,972 --> 00:44:39,134 He didn't want her. 564 00:44:39,208 --> 00:44:42,041 He did her only orally. 565 00:44:42,111 --> 00:44:44,443 What an irresponsible swine. 566 00:44:44,513 --> 00:44:46,447 Such a bastard. 567 00:44:46,515 --> 00:44:50,281 - Why you? -I don't know, Mom. 568 00:44:50,352 --> 00:44:52,787 He should be executed. 569 00:44:53,455 --> 00:44:57,187 In the name of the people, the accused, Theodor Bandis... 570 00:44:57,259 --> 00:45:01,787 a pool attendant, born in Salzburg in 1955... 571 00:45:01,864 --> 00:45:07,803 is hereby sentenced to serve in jail for three months. 572 00:45:07,870 --> 00:45:10,601 His sentence shall be suspended on probation. 573 00:45:10,673 --> 00:45:14,837 The verdict is in, handed down by a judge... 574 00:45:14,910 --> 00:45:17,402 who answers to his conscience only. 575 00:45:17,479 --> 00:45:21,643 Still, he was bound by laws written in and for a time... 576 00:45:21,717 --> 00:45:24,550 when young girls were considered dependent.. 577 00:45:24,620 --> 00:45:30,081 And were betrothed to be married by their parents. 578 00:45:30,159 --> 00:45:36,826 Do you agree that a man who sleeps with a girl 15 or 16 years old... 579 00:45:36,899 --> 00:45:41,996 should be found guilty by a court? 580 00:45:42,071 --> 00:45:45,234 Yes, because at 15, she's still too young. 581 00:45:45,307 --> 00:45:49,642 It's hard to set a limit, but 15 is too young. 582 00:45:49,712 --> 00:45:52,306 I know myself. 583 00:45:52,381 --> 00:45:58,184 You change your outlook at 15 and again at 17. 584 00:45:58,254 --> 00:46:04,660 Depends. If the girl is fine with it, I think, then the law is rubbish. 585 00:46:04,727 --> 00:46:09,688 Well, if she was willing... 586 00:46:09,765 --> 00:46:11,563 he should not be sent to jail. 587 00:46:11,634 --> 00:46:13,568 It takes two to tango. 588 00:46:13,636 --> 00:46:17,300 -I agree with this. - And you? 589 00:46:17,373 --> 00:46:22,209 I think the girl should share part of the blame... 590 00:46:22,278 --> 00:46:27,512 because a lot depends on her. 591 00:46:27,583 --> 00:46:31,076 It depends on whether she was willing or not. 592 00:46:31,153 --> 00:46:37,320 If she wanted to sleep with him, the man is not responsible. 593 00:46:37,393 --> 00:46:42,888 It also depends on why he slept with the girl. 594 00:46:42,965 --> 00:46:46,765 If he only did it for fun... 595 00:46:46,835 --> 00:46:49,896 or if she acted in a way... 596 00:46:49,972 --> 00:46:54,102 that the man ended up sleeping with her... 597 00:46:54,176 --> 00:46:58,340 or if she concealed her real age from him. 598 00:46:58,414 --> 00:47:02,681 I don't agree, because she is not completely without blame. 599 00:47:02,751 --> 00:47:06,016 If she lets it happen, the man is not the only one to blame. 600 00:47:09,024 --> 00:47:13,621 Hannelore and I have been bragging about sex and stuff. 601 00:47:13,696 --> 00:47:18,190 We told the boys how experienced we were, and they got all hot. 602 00:47:18,267 --> 00:47:24,104 But we don't know anything. Hopefully, they're just as scared. 603 00:47:24,173 --> 00:47:27,507 Come on, Hannelore. Are you having second thoughts? 604 00:47:27,576 --> 00:47:29,635 Don't be stupid. Why would you think that? 605 00:47:29,712 --> 00:47:31,373 Well, then hurry up. 606 00:47:31,447 --> 00:47:34,212 Those boys are hot. They won't wait for us. 607 00:47:45,227 --> 00:47:48,561 - They're actually coming. - So what? 608 00:47:48,630 --> 00:47:54,865 - Where are you going? -I remembered my feet are dirty- 609 00:47:54,937 --> 00:47:58,771 They don't care about your feet. You just have to be ready. 610 00:47:58,841 --> 00:48:02,175 We don't get naked, only the chicks will, understood? 611 00:48:02,244 --> 00:48:07,739 But we can still get away. I've never done it before. 612 00:48:07,816 --> 00:48:11,582 Me neither, but that's no reason to put your tail between your legs. 613 00:48:11,653 --> 00:48:18,081 I once read that if you're nervous, it might not work. 614 00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:19,650 That'd be bad. 615 00:48:19,728 --> 00:48:23,562 Nonsense. We just have to be tough. 616 00:48:23,632 --> 00:48:25,828 They're really hot chicks. 617 00:48:25,901 --> 00:48:28,893 What we lack in experience, they have too much of. 618 00:48:28,971 --> 00:48:30,769 Let's hope so. 619 00:48:40,983 --> 00:48:43,816 N-N-Nice view, eh? 620 00:48:43,886 --> 00:48:45,820 So, are we going to do it? 621 00:48:45,888 --> 00:48:47,686 But not here. 622 00:48:47,756 --> 00:48:49,747 So what's your plan? 623 00:48:51,460 --> 00:48:53,656 Don't leave me alone. 624 00:48:56,231 --> 00:48:59,496 What now? 625 00:48:59,568 --> 00:49:02,902 Somebody has to make a move. 626 00:49:04,506 --> 00:49:08,807 Come on, babe. Take it off, or at least your panties. 627 00:49:08,877 --> 00:49:11,039 Then no one can say we stripped them. 628 00:49:11,113 --> 00:49:12,877 The way you think! 629 00:49:13,982 --> 00:49:16,041 If you really don't want- 630 00:49:17,386 --> 00:49:20,117 Damn it, what are we going to do now? 631 00:49:21,457 --> 00:49:25,155 - You’re in? - We're already here. 632 00:50:21,850 --> 00:50:23,716 What's your name? 633 00:50:23,785 --> 00:50:26,914 Hannelore. Do you like my name? 634 00:50:26,989 --> 00:50:28,650 Not as much as your tits. 635 00:51:15,571 --> 00:51:18,768 How am I supposed to have an orgasm with all this? 636 00:51:20,676 --> 00:51:21,666 Idiot! 637 00:51:24,746 --> 00:51:28,410 - How old were you the first time? -18. 638 00:51:29,084 --> 00:51:31,519 - How old was he? -22. 639 00:51:31,587 --> 00:51:35,251 At what age should a young girl... 640 00:51:35,324 --> 00:51:39,261 be allowed to have sex? 641 00:51:39,328 --> 00:51:42,730 It depends on the girl. 642 00:51:42,798 --> 00:51:46,928 If there's a man you really like, would you simply sleep with him? 643 00:51:48,036 --> 00:51:50,027 Yes. 644 00:51:50,105 --> 00:51:51,937 If I really like him. 645 00:51:52,007 --> 00:51:56,774 - Even if you don't love him? - Do you mean his looks? 646 00:51:57,479 --> 00:52:00,073 I mean with a good-looking man. 647 00:52:00,816 --> 00:52:05,811 - If my feelings don't say no, why not? - Why not? 648 00:52:06,888 --> 00:52:09,380 - Are you on the pill? - Yes. 649 00:52:09,458 --> 00:52:13,793 How do you remember to take it? 650 00:52:13,862 --> 00:52:15,523 I just do. 651 00:52:15,597 --> 00:52:17,622 I'm used to it now. 652 00:52:17,699 --> 00:52:18,723 Thank you. 653 00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:21,531 - Do you have a steady boyfriend? - Yes. 654 00:52:21,603 --> 00:52:24,436 - How old is he? - He is 21. 655 00:52:24,506 --> 00:52:28,136 Does he live up to your ideals? 656 00:52:28,210 --> 00:52:31,043 No, not really. 657 00:52:31,113 --> 00:52:33,673 What is your ideal man, then? 658 00:52:34,549 --> 00:52:38,042 Physically or emotionally? 659 00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:41,055 - You see a difference? - Yes, I do. 660 00:52:41,123 --> 00:52:43,524 Let's start with the physical. 661 00:52:43,592 --> 00:52:45,082 Physical. 662 00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:48,221 My type? He's got black hair... 663 00:52:48,296 --> 00:52:52,255 a dark man and well-built. 664 00:52:52,334 --> 00:52:56,032 My boyfriend is blond and not so tall. 665 00:52:56,104 --> 00:53:00,268 - And emotionally? - He must be caring. 666 00:53:00,342 --> 00:53:04,506 He must not be a snob like most of today's guys. 667 00:53:06,014 --> 00:53:10,315 - Can he be a black man? - Sure, why not? 668 00:53:10,385 --> 00:53:13,446 What do you think of factors like money and virility? 669 00:53:13,522 --> 00:53:15,320 Money and virility? 670 00:53:16,525 --> 00:53:20,018 I don't know. Everybody must have money. 671 00:53:20,095 --> 00:53:23,963 Virility? I think everyone must have that too, no? 672 00:53:24,032 --> 00:53:27,332 When do you first sleep with a man? 673 00:53:27,402 --> 00:53:29,598 Isn't that a bit too intimate? 674 00:53:29,671 --> 00:53:32,163 Do you think a girl must be a virgin until she's married? 675 00:53:32,240 --> 00:53:33,332 No. 676 00:53:33,408 --> 00:53:37,743 - Why not? - Why should she wait so long? 677 00:53:37,813 --> 00:53:41,681 - When did you first have sex? - At 16 and a half. 678 00:53:41,750 --> 00:53:44,913 Do you think a girl must be a virgin until she's married? 679 00:53:44,986 --> 00:53:47,580 No, today I think that's not the case anymore. 680 00:53:47,656 --> 00:53:52,287 - When did you first have sex? -I think I was 16. 681 00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:58,129 I think a girl should gain sexual experience before marriage. 682 00:53:59,034 --> 00:54:01,765 I think it'd be good for her. 683 00:54:01,837 --> 00:54:05,671 Sexuality is something essential... 684 00:54:05,741 --> 00:54:08,369 and should be handled before marriage. 685 00:54:08,443 --> 00:54:15,281 If she's a virgin when she gets married, I think... 686 00:54:16,952 --> 00:54:21,719 she'll be very unhappy later and pick up men. 687 00:54:21,790 --> 00:54:23,952 She should be experienced. 688 00:54:24,025 --> 00:54:27,518 Otherwise, she wouldn't know about married life and what's expected. 689 00:54:27,596 --> 00:54:30,258 - How old are you? -16. 690 00:54:30,332 --> 00:54:35,168 When do you think a girl should be allowed to have sex? 691 00:54:35,237 --> 00:54:37,899 It depends on the girl and how mature she is. 692 00:54:37,973 --> 00:54:40,203 But not necessarily under 18. 693 00:54:40,275 --> 00:54:43,939 If you like a man, would you simply sleep with him? 694 00:54:44,012 --> 00:54:47,915 Why not? We wouldn't have to talk a lot and stuff. 695 00:54:47,983 --> 00:54:51,578 - When did you last have sex? - Three weeks ago. 696 00:54:52,988 --> 00:54:55,650 If there's no man, do you do it yourself? 697 00:54:56,491 --> 00:54:57,481 No. 698 00:54:58,293 --> 00:55:00,853 Why has it been so long since the last time? 699 00:55:00,929 --> 00:55:05,298 Well, it's not so easy. I can't answer that. 700 00:55:06,535 --> 00:55:08,526 - Or maybe I can. - Okay. 701 00:55:08,603 --> 00:55:11,664 I got the clap. 702 00:55:12,607 --> 00:55:14,268 Thank you. 703 00:55:19,481 --> 00:55:22,576 Our daughters today are aware of emancipation... 704 00:55:22,651 --> 00:55:25,279 the equality of men and women. 705 00:55:25,353 --> 00:55:30,223 Probably one of the most crucial trends of our century. 706 00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:37,226 Men and women are to be equal in their abilities, performance and demands. 707 00:55:37,299 --> 00:55:41,361 But this idea of equality can also lead to excesses... 708 00:55:41,436 --> 00:55:45,566 such as sexual aggressiveness on the part of women. 709 00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:48,632 This creates situations unimaginable in the past. 710 00:55:50,979 --> 00:55:53,949 We're done for today. You can go home now. 711 00:55:54,015 --> 00:55:56,382 - Bye! - See you! 712 00:56:46,768 --> 00:56:49,032 Marlene, what are you doing here? 713 00:56:49,704 --> 00:56:52,139 Don't you want to go home? 714 00:56:52,207 --> 00:56:54,039 I want to exercise a bit. 715 00:56:54,109 --> 00:56:56,942 You said it was good for the chest muscles. 716 00:56:57,779 --> 00:57:02,307 It also helps your tummy if you do it right. 717 00:57:02,384 --> 00:57:05,285 Then be a darling and show me what I'm doing wrong. 718 00:57:10,926 --> 00:57:12,587 Don't stiffen your back. 719 00:57:13,428 --> 00:57:15,920 And keep your legs together. 720 00:57:18,867 --> 00:57:21,700 This is hard and requires a lot of strength. 721 00:57:24,372 --> 00:57:27,205 It's easier for men to keep their legs together. 722 00:57:27,275 --> 00:57:29,369 Yes, that's true. 723 00:57:37,953 --> 00:57:39,887 Don't do that. 724 00:57:39,955 --> 00:57:41,616 Go home. 725 00:57:49,130 --> 00:57:51,064 Marlene, what are you doing? 726 00:57:51,132 --> 00:57:52,896 What do you want? 727 00:57:56,738 --> 00:57:59,400 You should know that by now. 728 00:58:22,530 --> 00:58:25,625 Well, Dieter, are you scared? 729 00:59:02,070 --> 00:59:03,799 - May I ask you a question? - Yes. 730 00:59:04,472 --> 00:59:08,807 - What is your dream man? -I don't have a dream man. 731 00:59:08,877 --> 00:59:11,005 - Do you have a steady boyfriend? - Yes. 732 00:59:11,679 --> 00:59:13,670 - How old is he? -19. 733 00:59:14,349 --> 00:59:16,977 Would you sleep with an older man? 734 00:59:17,652 --> 00:59:19,313 Depends on how old he is. 735 00:59:19,387 --> 00:59:23,187 - Would you sleep with your teacher? - No, absolutely not. 736 00:59:23,258 --> 00:59:26,091 Why not if I like him? 737 00:59:26,161 --> 00:59:29,791 Would you sleep with your teacher? 738 00:59:31,132 --> 00:59:33,294 - No. - Have sex with him? 739 00:59:33,368 --> 00:59:34,358 No. 740 00:59:34,436 --> 00:59:36,336 - Do you have a steady boyfriend? - Yes. 741 00:59:36,404 --> 00:59:40,841 - Does he live up to your ideal? - So far, yes, he does. 742 00:59:40,909 --> 00:59:44,504 What about money and virility? 743 00:59:44,579 --> 00:59:46,445 Gosh, money. 744 00:59:46,514 --> 00:59:49,006 Having money is nice. 745 00:59:49,084 --> 00:59:53,351 As for virility, I haven't met any impotent men, I don't know. 746 00:59:53,421 --> 00:59:55,617 Those are not really important. 747 00:59:55,690 --> 00:59:59,820 Would you jump into bed with a man you like? 748 00:59:59,894 --> 01:00:01,225 No, not immediately. 749 01:00:01,296 --> 01:00:06,063 Do you think sex can only work in connection with love? 750 01:00:06,134 --> 01:00:08,068 Actually, yes. 751 01:00:08,136 --> 01:00:10,400 Love should play a role. 752 01:00:11,072 --> 01:00:14,133 - But it's not necessary, right? - No, it's not a must. 753 01:00:14,209 --> 01:00:19,545 - Must the man make the first move? - No, I don't think so. 754 01:00:19,614 --> 01:00:23,778 She can't be passive and must be as active as the man. 755 01:00:23,852 --> 01:00:28,983 - How would you move first? - I have an idea. 756 01:00:29,057 --> 01:00:34,689 My God, that depends. You can't just define it like that. 757 01:00:34,762 --> 01:00:40,462 Do you think that the man should make the first move? 758 01:00:42,137 --> 01:00:45,471 Not necessarily. The woman can make the first move too. 759 01:00:45,540 --> 01:00:48,339 Could you see yourself make the first move? 760 01:00:50,011 --> 01:00:55,381 I would let him come out of his shell first. 761 01:01:04,792 --> 01:01:07,124 - How old are you? - You know how old I am. 762 01:01:07,195 --> 01:01:10,187 - Just making sure you do. - Are you starting this again? 763 01:01:10,265 --> 01:01:11,926 I haven't stopped yet. 764 01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:14,662 Okay, as you wish. I'm 18 years and two months old. 765 01:01:14,736 --> 01:01:19,003 I'm a Protestant and in 12th grade. 766 01:01:19,073 --> 01:01:23,408 I have an A in music and won't sleep with you. Happy now? 767 01:01:23,478 --> 01:01:25,708 - That was clear enough. - Well, good. 768 01:01:25,780 --> 01:01:28,374 Not good. I won't be teased by you anymore. 769 01:01:28,449 --> 01:01:32,113 Tease you? Are you crazy? Because I won't sleep with you? 770 01:01:32,187 --> 01:01:35,953 Exactly. We've known each other long enough. 771 01:01:36,024 --> 01:01:39,016 - Three weeks. - That's an eternity. 772 01:01:39,093 --> 01:01:40,583 For you, maybe. 773 01:01:40,662 --> 01:01:43,632 And I don't want to be expelled from school like Renate. 774 01:01:43,698 --> 01:01:45,860 Shut up. I've had it. 775 01:01:45,934 --> 01:01:48,733 I don't want to hear about it anymore. 776 01:01:55,376 --> 01:01:57,606 - Then I'll go. - So what? 777 01:01:57,679 --> 01:01:59,773 What I want doesn't matter anyway. 778 01:02:00,949 --> 01:02:05,409 - I'll take care of that. -I won't be blackmailed. 779 01:02:06,087 --> 01:02:08,215 You frustrated bitch. 780 01:02:14,362 --> 01:02:17,559 You've seen it. What do you think? 781 01:02:17,632 --> 01:02:20,602 If you want to keep the boy, you have no other choice. 782 01:02:20,668 --> 01:02:24,298 I was 18 when it happened, in my boyfriend's apartment. 783 01:02:24,372 --> 01:02:30,038 It was no accident, I knew what I was doing. 784 01:02:30,111 --> 01:02:32,546 But it was painful for me and I didn't enjoy it much. 785 01:02:32,614 --> 01:02:36,949 That quickly changed and I regret not having started sooner. 786 01:02:37,018 --> 01:02:39,680 I was 15 and a half. 787 01:02:39,754 --> 01:02:43,315 I was with my last petting partner at the English Garden. 788 01:02:43,992 --> 01:02:48,486 We both wanted it and had thought it through. 789 01:02:54,002 --> 01:02:57,495 It was extremely painful, but I didn't bleed. 790 01:02:57,572 --> 01:03:03,511 I didn't have an orgasm, because I was afraid of getting caught. 791 01:03:04,178 --> 01:03:06,510 Afterwards, I was quite happy. 792 01:03:06,581 --> 01:03:09,573 And you think it's correct to have sex at 15 and a half? 793 01:03:09,651 --> 01:03:11,016 Sure. 794 01:03:11,085 --> 01:03:13,679 - How old are you now? - Seventeen. 795 01:03:14,689 --> 01:03:17,021 - Will you come with me? - You got something to drink? 796 01:03:17,091 --> 01:03:20,117 - Yes, half a bottle of whiskey. - All right, then. 797 01:03:21,796 --> 01:03:24,993 I don't know what gets into some girls. 798 01:03:25,066 --> 01:03:27,728 I was pleasantly surprised. 799 01:03:27,802 --> 01:03:32,296 I hardly felt any pain, and we did it four times the first night. 800 01:03:32,373 --> 01:03:38,039 It was beautiful. My friend was 26 and very experienced. 801 01:03:38,112 --> 01:03:42,777 He undressed me and softened me up with his hand. 802 01:03:44,118 --> 01:03:47,452 I'd been petting before... 803 01:03:47,522 --> 01:03:50,287 so my hymen must have been ripped already. 804 01:03:50,358 --> 01:03:53,191 I don't know, but it was great. 805 01:03:55,029 --> 01:03:57,396 I was 17 and a half then. 806 01:03:58,399 --> 01:04:00,458 Do you still think it was the right age? 807 01:04:00,535 --> 01:04:01,764 Yes. 808 01:04:01,836 --> 01:04:03,497 - Were you in love? - No. 809 01:04:03,571 --> 01:04:06,802 Love played no role. It was just sex. 810 01:04:08,009 --> 01:04:10,341 Come on, what's on your mind? 811 01:04:10,411 --> 01:04:13,381 I don't know what to do. Axel wants to do it. 812 01:04:13,448 --> 01:04:15,246 - You don't? - Sure, but- 813 01:04:15,316 --> 01:04:17,114 No “buts.” It's no biggie. 814 01:04:17,185 --> 01:04:19,517 - I'm scared. - You must be joking. 815 01:04:19,587 --> 01:04:22,079 It's going to be painful, and I'm not on the pill. 816 01:04:22,156 --> 01:04:25,319 Well, he has to be careful, then, if he's honorable. 817 01:04:25,393 --> 01:04:28,522 About the pain, it's not so bad. 818 01:04:29,197 --> 01:04:32,792 True, the first time isn't as good for us as for them. 819 01:04:32,867 --> 01:04:34,926 But the sooner you start, the better. 820 01:04:37,338 --> 01:04:39,636 Be happy to get rid of your hymen. 821 01:04:39,707 --> 01:04:44,235 This is not the Middle Ages when they weighed it in gold. 822 01:04:44,912 --> 01:04:48,348 Later you'll regret not doing it any sooner. 823 01:04:48,416 --> 01:04:50,908 I don't even know if Axel is the right one. 824 01:04:50,985 --> 01:04:53,977 The right one? That's not important. 825 01:04:54,055 --> 01:04:57,821 There'll be enough time for love later. First, you have to learn how to do it. 826 01:04:57,892 --> 01:05:02,227 But it's the high point in a woman’s life and without love- 827 01:05:02,296 --> 01:05:04,287 Where did you hear this rubbish? 828 01:05:04,365 --> 01:05:07,027 That's a fairy-tale story. 829 01:05:07,101 --> 01:05:11,231 Love doesn't lead to sex, but sex to love. 830 01:05:11,305 --> 01:05:13,797 It's like soccer. 831 01:05:13,875 --> 01:05:17,937 Pelé trains all the time, but the championship is every four years. 832 01:05:18,613 --> 01:05:22,277 You talk as if you had all the experience in the world. 833 01:05:22,350 --> 01:05:24,876 Enough to see clearly. 834 01:05:24,952 --> 01:05:29,617 For me, it started with me almost getting raped. 835 01:05:29,690 --> 01:05:32,557 Back in Frankfurt before we moved here. 836 01:05:32,627 --> 01:05:36,120 I knew my stuff, because I had had a boyfriend. 837 01:05:36,197 --> 01:05:38,859 He taught me a few things, petting and stuff. 838 01:05:38,933 --> 01:05:40,628 How old were you then? 839 01:05:40,701 --> 01:05:43,534 Barely 15. I still remember it. 840 01:05:43,604 --> 01:05:48,041 It was a really hot day, and I wanted to visit a girlfriend. 841 01:05:48,709 --> 01:05:51,007 My parents were always at ease when I visited her. 842 01:05:51,078 --> 01:05:54,139 They liked her home and family. 843 01:05:54,215 --> 01:05:57,378 “If she's with them, she's in good hands,” they'd say. 844 01:05:57,452 --> 01:05:59,944 What a joke! 845 01:06:00,021 --> 01:06:05,516 So I go there, but she wasn't there, only her father. 846 01:06:05,593 --> 01:06:10,588 He invited me in and said he'd get his daughter. 847 01:06:10,665 --> 01:06:13,362 But then he attacked me. 848 01:06:13,434 --> 01:06:18,565 If he hadn't been such a fool, I might have done it with him. 849 01:06:18,639 --> 01:06:21,506 A mature man is supposed to be ideal for your first time. 850 01:06:21,576 --> 01:06:23,840 But this guy- 851 01:06:27,114 --> 01:06:29,947 - Did he rape you? - No. 852 01:06:31,786 --> 01:06:36,280 - Did you report the swine? - No, because of my friend. 853 01:06:36,357 --> 01:06:38,655 It was not her fault. 854 01:06:38,726 --> 01:06:42,390 Besides, I would have had to go through it again with the cops. 855 01:06:42,463 --> 01:06:45,763 I could have ended up being a mental case. 856 01:06:56,110 --> 01:07:01,879 If your parents ask about your dress, tell them you fought with my daughter. 857 01:07:07,722 --> 01:07:13,388 - That must have been a shock. - No, I'm not some delicate flower. 858 01:07:13,461 --> 01:07:15,896 You know that these things happen. 859 01:07:16,564 --> 01:07:20,023 But it was a weird feeling. 860 01:07:20,101 --> 01:07:25,130 And it took its toll: I got one F after another in school. 861 01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:29,266 Good thing we left Frankfurt soon after. 862 01:07:35,016 --> 01:07:37,951 In Frankfurt, my parents had me attend ballet school. 863 01:07:38,019 --> 01:07:40,579 It was all about their fixed idea of grace. 864 01:07:40,655 --> 01:07:44,523 In Munich, I continued the hopping around. 865 01:07:46,294 --> 01:07:48,194 That's where I met Ingrid. 866 01:07:48,262 --> 01:07:52,995 You know, in a strange place, you look for a friend. 867 01:07:53,668 --> 01:07:58,333 But I had had a different idea of this friendship. 868 01:09:00,134 --> 01:09:03,593 - With girls? - Won't hurt you to find out. 869 01:09:03,671 --> 01:09:07,904 It wasn't a big deal and only happened one time. 870 01:09:07,975 --> 01:09:13,141 But it was good, because I finally wanted to have real sex. 871 01:09:13,214 --> 01:09:17,708 - How old were you? - 16, sort of. 872 01:09:21,055 --> 01:09:23,854 His name was Bert. He was 17. 873 01:09:23,924 --> 01:09:27,656 He lived with his grandma in a little cottage. 874 01:09:28,663 --> 01:09:33,692 He'd never have asked me. 875 01:09:33,768 --> 01:09:36,328 He'd never been with a girl. 876 01:09:36,404 --> 01:09:39,601 I felt like a vixen. 877 01:09:52,353 --> 01:09:54,287 We'd planned it all. 878 01:09:54,355 --> 01:09:58,314 Bert brought some red wine to get some courage. 879 01:09:58,392 --> 01:10:01,327 We also had a record player. 880 01:10:01,996 --> 01:10:06,058 We wanted to undress each other, always taking turns. 881 01:10:06,133 --> 01:10:08,158 Each one a piece. 882 01:11:26,781 --> 01:11:29,512 And then it happened. 883 01:11:58,679 --> 01:12:01,842 - Did it hurt? - It was bearable. 884 01:12:01,916 --> 01:12:06,911 But it was no picnic. Don't expect too much. 885 01:12:07,822 --> 01:12:13,693 It was unsatisfying and bitter. Not the way I'd imagined. 886 01:12:16,197 --> 01:12:18,529 It was a flop. 887 01:12:30,678 --> 01:12:35,172 I went home to distract myself but it didn't help. 888 01:12:35,249 --> 01:12:39,914 My short encounter with Bert had left me restless. 889 01:12:39,987 --> 01:12:45,084 I was waiting for something, my first orgasm. 890 01:13:27,268 --> 01:13:29,965 That's not very encouraging. 891 01:13:30,037 --> 01:13:32,369 It was difficult for me in the beginning. That happens. 892 01:13:32,439 --> 01:13:36,774 - Do you still see the boy- - No. I didn't care for him. 893 01:13:36,844 --> 01:13:42,476 - And now? - I'm seeing Robbie, who's 28. 894 01:13:42,549 --> 01:13:44,313 - Your big love? - Maybe. 895 01:13:44,385 --> 01:13:48,083 - How often do you see him? - Sometimes two or three days in a row... 896 01:13:48,155 --> 01:13:51,056 sometimes not for weeks. He travels a lot. 897 01:13:51,125 --> 01:13:54,789 - Your parents know about him? - Like I would tell them! 898 01:13:54,862 --> 01:13:58,355 They still pretend I was delivered by the stork. 899 01:13:58,432 --> 01:14:01,094 They think I'm the woman without a bottom part. 900 01:14:03,470 --> 01:14:08,636 There's Robbie. See you soon. 901 01:14:08,709 --> 01:14:11,576 And take care of Romeo. 902 01:14:23,624 --> 01:14:26,719 - Good day! - Lilo! Come in. 903 01:14:27,394 --> 01:14:30,056 - Is Mr. Eriksen in? - No, he's out. 904 01:14:30,130 --> 01:14:34,624 Don't be sad. He'll be back. He's just mailing a letter. 905 01:14:34,702 --> 01:14:39,230 I'm going to the opera tonight... 906 01:14:39,306 --> 01:14:41,900 and he'll be home. 907 01:14:41,976 --> 01:14:45,469 May I wait? I need to talk to him. We've had a fight. 908 01:14:45,546 --> 01:14:48,379 -I know that. - Did he say why? 909 01:14:48,449 --> 01:14:51,714 No, and it's not the business of an old woman like me. 910 01:14:51,785 --> 01:14:55,744 Of course, you can wait here. 911 01:14:57,024 --> 01:14:59,925 Make yourself at home. 912 01:14:59,994 --> 01:15:03,328 Today's youth need something else. 913 01:15:03,397 --> 01:15:06,458 I have to dash. 914 01:15:06,533 --> 01:15:11,027 You know? The best part is always the prelude. 915 01:15:11,105 --> 01:15:16,236 And remember: no female visitors after 10:00. 916 01:15:17,244 --> 01:15:20,908 I'm telling you because I won't be back until 11:30. 917 01:15:20,981 --> 01:15:26,249 - Give my best to him. - Thanks, I'll tell him. 918 01:16:24,278 --> 01:16:28,237 - You? What a surprise? - You think? 919 01:18:16,356 --> 01:18:18,017 Come on. 920 01:18:50,057 --> 01:18:52,549 You're sweet. 921 01:18:56,463 --> 01:18:57,953 You're sweet. 922 01:19:07,908 --> 01:19:11,902 That's all right, Doctor, but you can't generalize. 923 01:19:11,979 --> 01:19:15,677 Are you saying that all our young are morally corrupt? 924 01:19:15,749 --> 01:19:18,480 I didn't say corrupt. 925 01:19:18,552 --> 01:19:21,647 Sexuality is not something evil or bad. 926 01:19:21,722 --> 01:19:24,851 It's a natural urge that we all have. 927 01:19:24,925 --> 01:19:29,487 You don't say that your statements apply to all girls, do you? 928 01:19:29,563 --> 01:19:32,191 -I agree. - Of course, not all. 929 01:19:32,266 --> 01:19:34,200 But that's beside the point. 930 01:19:34,868 --> 01:19:40,068 We need to recognize that girls have sex sooner today. 931 01:19:40,140 --> 01:19:44,737 And we're not entitled to condemn their sex lives. 932 01:19:44,811 --> 01:19:46,472 Or to punish them for it. 933 01:19:46,546 --> 01:19:51,313 Honestly, I think we should think about what he said. 934 01:19:51,385 --> 01:19:53,547 And where would that lead us? 935 01:19:53,620 --> 01:19:57,614 Maybe an ethical understanding that's not hypocritical like ours. 936 01:19:57,691 --> 01:20:03,186 Today school girls have sexual fantasies and act on them. 937 01:20:03,263 --> 01:20:07,723 Let's be honest and look at things without hypocrisy and blinkers. 938 01:20:07,801 --> 01:20:11,499 I really don't know how to approach my daughter anymore. 939 01:20:12,673 --> 01:20:16,041 Be subtle and tolerant. 940 01:20:16,710 --> 01:20:20,772 And forget the idea that your daughter is a virgin. 941 01:20:20,847 --> 01:20:23,077 Easy for you to say, but can I do the right thing? 942 01:20:23,150 --> 01:20:26,848 It's not easy for parents to give good advice... 943 01:20:26,920 --> 01:20:29,446 but at least let's try not to give them bad advice. 944 01:20:29,523 --> 01:20:31,685 Very enlightening. 945 01:20:31,758 --> 01:20:37,697 Let's come back to the case in point, Renate Wolf. 946 01:20:37,764 --> 01:20:42,031 Since Dr. Bernauer has taken charge of educating your daughters... 947 01:20:42,102 --> 01:20:45,402 I think it's best if I leave. Good-bye. 948 01:20:55,182 --> 01:20:59,710 - How much longer will they be? - Careful, the old hag's coming. 949 01:21:01,254 --> 01:21:04,588 School has been out for along time. What are you doing here? 950 01:21:04,658 --> 01:21:08,492 - We're waiting for our parents. - When will they be finished? 951 01:21:08,562 --> 01:21:10,997 If had a say, this farce would have been over long ago. 952 01:21:13,100 --> 01:21:15,194 Good evening, Mrs. Vogt. 953 01:21:18,171 --> 01:21:19,900 Have you heard anything yet? 954 01:21:19,973 --> 01:21:23,341 No, but looking at her face, I'm getting a bad feeling. 955 01:21:23,410 --> 01:21:25,139 What a silly cow. 956 01:21:25,846 --> 01:21:29,646 - Will your dad pull it off? -I hope so. 957 01:21:29,716 --> 01:21:33,050 We have to come to an end. 958 01:21:33,120 --> 01:21:35,282 Let's take a vote. 959 01:21:35,355 --> 01:21:37,619 I want her to stay. 960 01:21:37,691 --> 01:21:39,523 I'm against it. 961 01:21:39,593 --> 01:21:42,858 I'm getting sick thinking my daughter sits next to that brat. 962 01:21:43,530 --> 01:21:47,524 - What if your daughter is next? - She would never do that. 963 01:21:47,601 --> 01:21:49,763 Are you sure? 964 01:21:50,704 --> 01:21:53,230 I'll follow Mrs. Vogt's example and leave. 965 01:21:53,907 --> 01:21:56,433 One less vote against you. 966 01:21:56,510 --> 01:22:00,276 You should think about sexual prejudice... 967 01:22:00,347 --> 01:22:03,009 and why it lingers on in German families. 968 01:22:03,083 --> 01:22:06,519 Let's vote. Who agrees that she should stay? 969 01:22:06,586 --> 01:22:12,116 I still have concerns, but I don't want to cast the first stone. 970 01:22:17,631 --> 01:22:21,295 I don't want to be a monster, so I'll vote in favor as well. 971 01:22:21,368 --> 01:22:25,464 Thank you for your decision, which I support wholeheartedly. 972 01:22:25,539 --> 01:22:28,907 I'm sure the teachers' council will share your view. Thank you. 973 01:22:33,513 --> 01:22:35,845 I still have some fundamental doubts. 974 01:22:35,916 --> 01:22:38,317 Why didn't you discuss them? 975 01:22:38,385 --> 01:22:42,549 - Who wants to be old-fashioned? - That's true! 976 01:23:01,808 --> 01:23:03,469 - How did it go, Dad? - All clear. 977 01:23:03,543 --> 01:23:05,204 Did you hear? 978 01:23:08,782 --> 01:23:11,808 - Was it bad? - No one likes hearing the truth. 979 01:23:14,488 --> 01:23:16,456 No one likes hearing the truth. 980 01:23:16,523 --> 01:23:18,685 But truth is what we want.